Mentoring pairs
October 2026
Dear younger friend,

When I was twenty-six, with two babies and a husband on night shifts, an older woman at my church asked if I'd like to have coffee. I said yes mostly because she offered to hold the baby.
We met twice a month for eleven years. She never once gave me a program. She asked good questions, prayed for me by name, and told me the truth when I needed it.
Every year we pair about forty women like that: one younger, one older, for one year, twice a month, wherever suits you. If you'd like someone to walk beside you, ask. If you're the older one reading this, we need you more.
How pairing works
From asking to your first coffee
New pairs begin each September and January.
Step 1 of 3
Tell us a little
Your season of life, your part of town and when you're free. It takes five minutes.

Step 2 of 3
Mercy makes the match
She prays over every pairing and usually knows both women personally. Expect a call within three weeks.

Step 3 of 3
Meet twice a month for a year
Coffee, a walk on the Midland Valley trail, a kitchen table. You choose. There's a short guide if you'd like one.

Leaders
The women who keep the house running
Leigh Ann is part-time; everyone else volunteers. Each of us answers her own email, usually the same day.
Staff
- Leigh Ann HarjoDirector
Teaching
- Shirlene PettiboneBible teacher
Circle leaders
- Graciela OntiverosSpanish-language circle, Sundays
- Mercy AbiolaMentoring pairs
- Kristen VallejoThe Waiting Room
- Opal RedcornWidows' Table host
Retreat and hospitality
- Shelby KincaidRetreat and events
- Bettye MarchbanksChildcare in the back rooms, Tuesdays
Ask
Ask for a mentor, or offer to be one
Mercy reads every message and calls within a week.
- Address1520 E 15th St, Tulsa, OK 74120
- Phone(555) 019-4426
- Emailhello@example.org
- OfficeHouse open Tue–Thu, 9 AM–2 PM
Thank you, .
A real person will reply within a day.