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The cards
The twelve questions
One card a month, turned over after dessert. Each has a question, a follow-up for the brave, and a short verse.
Printed on heavy cream card stock, one set per table. Hosts keep the box.
The full set
Every card, in order
Open any month to read the card as it's printed.
January · How did we actually meet?
Each tells the story. The other one corrects it. Follow-up: when did you first know?
Genesis 2:18
February · What do you do that makes me feel loved?
Be specific: a coffee, a text, taking the bins out. Follow-up: what do I think I do that you don't notice?
1 John 4:19
March · What did we used to dream about?
The plans from before the kids or the mortgage. Follow-up: which one do we still want?
Proverbs 13:12
April · What do we do on a good Saturday?
Describe one from the last year. Follow-up: when did we last have one?
Psalm 118:24
May · How do we fight?
Not what about. Who goes quiet, who gets loud, who apologizes first. Follow-up: what would help?
Ephesians 4:26
June · Who else is in our marriage?
Parents, exes, kids, a job, a phone. Follow-up: who needs a smaller chair?
Genesis 2:24
July · How do we really feel about money?
Saver or spender, and where each of you learned it. Follow-up: one change for this year.
Hebrews 13:5
August · What are you carrying that I don't know about?
Answer only what you're ready to. Follow-up: how can I carry it with you?
Galatians 6:2
September · What did your parents' marriage teach you?
The good and the hard. Follow-up: what are we doing differently?
Exodus 20:12
October · When have we forgiven each other?
Tell one story you both agree to tell. Follow-up: is there one still waiting?
Colossians 3:13
November · What are we thankful for that we never say?
Three things each, out loud. Follow-up: write one on the place card and swap.
1 Thessalonians 5:18
December · What would we tell a newer couple?
One sentence each. We collect them for next year's First-Year tables.
Titus 2:3–5
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